Everytime I want a hug or kiss from the nephew, if he isn’t readily giving them, I bribe him saying I’ll give him chocolate or a toy or something.
Wonder if that will work on grown men. See a guy I like and offer to buy him a cupcake, in return for affection/a hug. Not sure if I should try that or try walking around with a sandwich bored saying “single and bored”. One of it should work right? :D